Here Are My Tips for Western Men to Meet Respectable Thai Ladies
It’s obvious by now that you’ll face many challenges and obstacles when trying to meet an honest trustworthy and respectable – yet irresistible and sexy — Thai lady who’s looking for the same things in life that you are.
Let me restate the obvious: the main challenge for most Western travelers to Thailand is that they never venture outside the tourist areas and bar scene where the Thai sex workers are. Most Western men stay in those areas set up for Western men. And that limits their selection to bar girls. The following tips are effective ways to meet respectable Thai women:
1. The best way to meet an honest, respectable young woman, and to make the best impression on a lady you really want to impress, is to arrange an introduction to her through her family or friends. That’s the most traditional way — the way it’s been done for hundreds of years. A personal recommendation from someone she trusts helps you break the ice, and puts you way out in front of any other man who comes unrecommended.
2. A second way to meet the right kind of Thai lady is to meet her at work (if you work in Thailand). Or, if you regularly travel to Thailand on business, arrange to meet through your local contacts. Meeting women this way, you’ll be introduced through banks, suppliers, advertising agencies, the post, or other mutually trusted work contacts. You’ll be guaranteed that these women are educated, respectable Thai ladies who are not connected to the sex industry or the bar scene.
3. You can also increase your chances of finding a Thai partner by hanging out in the right spots. Visit bookshops and department stores. But exercise some caution around coffee shops because freelancing bar girls often use them as hangouts to get a free coffee or two.
Typically, any lady you’ve got your eye on will be with a group of friends. Don’t discount approaching her when she is, as she’ll feel far less threatened and you’re more likely to get a favorable reaction. You can talk to everyone in the group — and they’ll be interested in you – but make direct eye contact to make it clear which girl you’ve actually got your eye on.
4. Old-fashioned boy-meets-girls tactics still work. Initiate a conversation with a girl you’re interested in, compliment her on what she’s wearing, reading, or doing. You’ll be pleasantly surprised at how well received any advance you make is – even the clumsy ones! You will often get a great smile in return, perhaps a compliment in return, and she might even show some interest in you, too. Okay, she won’t be gyrating in your lap, but you’ll often see that her response is so much warmer than the responses of Western women you’ve tried to approach in the past!
You might find that she speaks poor English, because many well- educated Thai ladies read and write much better than they speak. You’ll want to learn some Thai phrases, and that will take you a long way toward showing interest and respect for the country and its culture. She’ll be interested in talking with you about how long you’ve been in Thailand, and how you learned the words you know. She’ll also want to practice her English, as well. Learning a few Thai phrases makes it more comfortable for her to use what she will think of as her clumsy English.
Cruising bookshops, department stores, and coffee shops, while it can be fun, can be time-consuming and is a bit “hit or miss.” You might be able to get a date, but expect a sister or a friend to come along.
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