What Are Thai Women’s Qualities That Make Them So Attractive to Western Men?
Beauty is In the Eye of the Beholder
While it’s true that beauty is in the eye of the beholder, and what one person finds beautiful another may not, most Western men agree that Thai women are particularly attractive physically, and the many men we’ve asked this question to seem to agree that they are among the most beautiful women in the world.
Their appearance is considered exotic. They generally have a petite, delicate frame, beautiful skin, and long, thick, sleek dark hair. They move with graceful femininity, and often appear much younger than their actual age, retaining that youthful appearance well into their mature years.
Their primarily Buddhist background adds to their exotic qualities in the minds of the typical Western man. Unlike most modern Western cultures, the Buddhist culture embraces and celebrates the principle of Femininity, rather than seeing it as weak, submissive, or something to be ashamed of and exploited.
Many men can’t pinpoint exactly what makes a “feminine” woman more attractive, but they find that partnership with a calm and gentle woman who wants and enjoys being taken care of gives them a sense of usefulness and value in a relationship. Embracing and celebrating their femininity, Thai women are considered to be more gentle, gracious and respectful than traditional Western women, and they are secure in their role in the home and family.
Embracing Traditional Roles and Values
Another trait of Thai women that more traditional Western “gentlemen” find attractive is their charming and conservative approach to dating, love, marriage, and family.
A Thai woman’s primary commitment is to her family. She is thoughtful and courteous beyond reproach to her parents, her siblings, and her extended family, and will generously do whatever she can to make them happy. As a matter of fact, it is not at all uncommon for an adult Thai woman to continue to live with her family long into adulthood.
Initially shy and reserved, a respectable Thai lady will often travel in the company of friends or family chaperones, unwilling to be seen alone with a man she doesn’t know and risk damage to her reputation. Traditionally any introduction to a man is usually arranged through a friend or relative, and it develops at a slow, cautious pace under the supervision of someone the lady trusts.
Once she has committed to a relationship, the traditional Thaiwoman is completely devoted, dedicating her time, energy, and affection to making sure her partner feels happy, loved and appreciated.
Loyalty to family is the ultimate Thai value, and a respectable Thai woman believes that monogamy is fundamental to building a strong relationship and maintaining her family.
The Rewards You Can Expect from a Relationship with a Traditional Thai Lady
If you are thoughtful and selective in your pursuit of a partnership with a respectable Thai lady, you couldn’t ask for a more loving, devoted partner.
You’ll have a sweet, affectionate, and thoughtful companion whose primary goal in life is to make you happy.
You’ll have a polite, conservative, and feminine friend who won’t try to compete with you, dominate you, or change you.
You’ll have someone who cherishes the fact that you want to love her, protect her, and take care of her for the rest of your life.
CASE STUDY: After many false starts and bad experiences with the wrong women, Mark met his wife, Dao, at a bookstore, when she was there with her friends. Over tea, they “clicked” right away, and after a traditional courtship, were married in Bangkok. They currently live in San Francisco, and are working to save money for an eventual move back to Thailand. Says Mark, “She is a great wife and friend, and a wonderful human being. She is very responsible with money (way more than I am), she works hard around the house, and knows exactly how to make me happy. She is my true partner – not my maid or my slave. My role in the relationship is to make her as happy as she makes me, to treat her kindly, and to take care of her. We couldn’t be happier!”
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