Here’s What You Have to Be Aware About The Danger of Internet Dating
- The Bar Girl Goes On Line
The internet has provided a great opportunity for the savvy Bar Girl to extend her reach.It’s not uncommon for a proficient bar girl to have up to ten men in her clutches. While the relationship is just “online,” the objectives and mechanics are still the same. Each guy will feel he has a special connection with her. Each guy may even feel he loves her, through nothing but online chats and email exchanges. She will do everything to make him feel like he is “the one.”
But the bar girl’s reality is that each guy is just another customer, and the rule of the game is to extract maximum cash from him. It’s no different online.
She’ll tell you her cell phone was stolen and she needs money to replace it. She’ll tell you how hard it is to get on the internet at the café, that she needs a computer so she can email you directly. She will always speak of a crisis in her life that requires money, or a desire for some new education or training that will help lift her out of the bar scene. She’ll suggest great opportunities to invest in — land, charities, or businesses – which require you to send money right now.
I’ll reveal the most typical tricks and scams – and offer you my best advice about how to avoid them.
- Dating Web Sites and Chat Rooms: Who are You REALLY Talking To?
Online, dating websites and chat rooms are particularly profitable places for bar girls to hang out and “network,” and many of them have sprung up in Thailand.
Why? Because they are “cash cows,” targeting lonely, naïve, and gullible Western men in love with the idea of finding a Thai wife.
Browsing one of these dating sites or chat rooms, a lonely guy will find himself enchanted by a photo of a lovely, young, sexy girl – and flattered that such a beautiful girl would take the time to chat with him, never considering he might be a target.
It never enters his mind that the “girl” he’s chatting with might not be who she says she is. She could be older or less attractive. “She” could even be a “he.”
It also never enters his mind that the only reason this person is online is to fulfill the bar girl’s “prime directive:” to extract the most cash possible from the relationship. The online behavior will mimic the bar behavior: flattery, emotional manipulation, promises that he is “the one” or that she is “in love.” As the online relationship progresses, she might ask for ways to contact him more directly and personally, initiate telephone conversations, or even beg him to come visit her in Thailand.
And once he gets there, he’s in for a shock.
- What Could Possibly Go Wrong?
Some guys have flown halfway around the world to meet a woman they have met online. The odds of a relationship working out in your favor that way are slightly better than those of trying to find a valid relationship in a bar – but they are still too low for comfort.
We know of a few times when this has worked out just fine. But we know of plenty more where the trip has turned into a complete nightmare.
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