Here Are the Things You Should Consider Before Taking Your Thai Lady to Your Homeland
Every year, a lot of Western men (with majority of them Americans), come to Thailand to get a first-hand experience of this fascinating country. Most Americans get hooked with the “Land of Smiles” and can easily fall in love with a Thai woman because they are simply lovable.
There is an increase in American men who are thinking of taking home their beautiful partners each year, but before you take that big step, you have to put plenty of things into perspective.
1. Language is the foremost factor to consider. Does she speak English or can you speak Thai? There are a lot of Americans who marry Thai women because they are charming and beautiful. A few years later, they realize that both of them barely communicate to each other. So before taking her to the United States, it is important that she speaks well, understandable English. It is also vital that you keep an open mind to learn how to speak basic Thai so that your relationship will have a higher chance to survive. As always, communication plays a major role in every relationship. Day-to-day interactions with her will be a disaster if you don’t understand her especially during making important decisions. Learning either English or Thai greatly helps you both in interacting with each other along with each of your families.
- Close family ties. Thai women are close with their families. They love spending more quality time with their relatives. Marrying a Thai woman is like marrying her entire family. So, when she is already in the United States, she will likely communicate often with her family. Or she may want to fly her family to the US for a visit. Make sure to accept this reality because sometimes, this can be unbearable as Western men value privacy and personal space.
2. Social Activities. Social gatherings like weddings and funerals are important gatherings in Thai culture. One can be excused when being unable to attend a wedding, but not attending a funeral. It is considered rude and improper. If she is in the United States, most likely she will want to go home in Thailand to attend a funeral if any of her relatives die. Are you ready financially to send her home?
3. Thai Culture
⇒ Culture is a major factor in every relationship which must not be overlooked. According to studies, interracial relationships have more stress compared to the relationships of the same culture. So, it is important to have an open heart and mind in adjusting and adapting to each other’s culture.
⇒ As for food, she will most probably be cooking Thai food even if she is in the US so be prepared to be pampered with yummy Thai foods.
4. Money and Family Support
Are you willing to send her family financial support? With Thais having a close knit relationship with each other, this factor cannot be ignored. It is natural for members of the Thai family to help each other. Usually, the stable member helps her parents and siblings with school tuition, medical care and other financial necessities.Thai women are beautiful, kind, caring and gentle. These qualities make them excellent wives and mothers who will take care of their children and husband even if they age.
Taking her home is worth the money and effort if you put greater value on:
⇒ Appreciating her family. Understand that the welfare of her family is hertopmost priority.
⇒ Understanding her values and culture.
⇒ Money matters (home mortgages, sister’s or brother’s schooling, parents’ medical care and others).
Falling in love with a Thai woman and taking her with you to the United States is a great idea. However, there are a lot of considerations that should be thought out carefully. In any relationship, much more with a Thai-American one, communication, compatibility, understanding and willingness to compromise are the key factors that will help increase the possibility of making it work.
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